That seems to be the most popular question these days on many of the slave/bdsm/fetish boards. Do you share your slave or property (for sex) with others?
The “Hell No” crowd
This group of respondents feels its not right for a variety of reasons. Mostly that she belongs to him and him only. He has no reason to share her with others.
Than you have the fear of disease. Too many blow jobs or anal rapes and she may have some serious health issues or diseases. I can see that if you are not careful. Just letting anyone fuck your toy seems a little lax to me. But some like it that way.
I always love the respondents who claim that sharing his slave with others would demean her as a person! That’s why you have pre-negotiated limits. Continuous conversations on what turns each other on and what more can he/she do for the other.
This “hell no, that demeans her/me” answer usually comes from those who’s profile states they are “slaves” or are in “real TPE” relationships!! Really?? Than what part of “I am Master, you are slave” am I not understanding here??
The “Hell Yes” Crowd
This is usually those who enter into the BDSM world from swinging. They are bringing their love of open sex into the world of power and control. Seeing where it can take them.
They get off on the power exchange and watching their partner get used by others or knowing their partner is getting his rocks off watching you being used by others. Knowing that in the end, the Master will take back control of the slave and use her for his own pleasures.
This is also the crowd that likes to show off. She wants to show off that she is his toy and will do whatever he tells her. Or he is wanting to show off his Dominance to others. The fact that he took this little lady and turned her into a slut slave like no other. And she wants to prove him right or make him proud.
It is said that many women have the fantasy of being used by others, but find it difficult to let their partner know it for fear of him going too far with it. getting hurt or getting abused (?). You also have the whole guilt thing. We are not brought up to be like this, so we need to deny ourselves the opportunity to try it.
Getting to the “Hell Yes” stage may take some time. Like most master/slave relationships, its a building process. Try this, than that and it leads to something else. Building up the trust and the tolerance.
Yes, But only to a Select Few
What I like to call “The Chosen Ones”
These Owners like to show off their toy. To let others know just how well behaved and loved she is. So while he may show the world her submissive side, he only shares her sexual submission skills with a few other people. People he knows and trusts. This is where I came into the scene. By being a “chosen one”
This can make the relationship so much stronger for every one. For the slave, she knows she is being given to others to use that have passed a test with her Owner. For the Master, it shows he has something worthy to share and feels you are special enough to try it. For the ones he shares her with, it means that you have been chosen. Its an earned privilege. Enjoy it carefully.
Where do you think??
Sir Anthony
