The Pleasure of Waiting for The Pain

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If you are looking for a more sexy moment in a BDSM relationship (or scene) there is nothing hotter than the moments leading up to the punishment.  I call it the pleasure of waiting for the pain.  The slave and the Master are on the edge with anticipation, anxiety and sex.

The Master is Waiting

No Master really likes to punish hos slave.  but there are the times that you must.  That moment before the punishment is an erotic time for many.  Its the pinnacle f the relationship.  The ultimate moment of power exchange.  She has disobeyed, she knows she needs to be corrected and you have the full right and her permission to correct the behavior.  You, and you alone have the power to bring her pain.  In bringing her pain, it brings pleasure in many different ways  to both.

The Slave is Ready

She has performed less than stellar and she knows she needs to be punished for that.  The moment before the punishment is a mind-fuck all its own.  She is about to open herself up to whatever her Master has decided she must endure.  The slave has no choice but to accept the fate.  She has released herself to him and will take it for his pleasure and his satisfaction.

In accepting the pain and the punishment, she has brought herself pleasure in knowing he is doing this for her own good and the good of the relationship.  She is the slave and often times, she is wet from the waiting.

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(Photo: Noelle Aurelia at TheRedChair.net )


The (semi) Truth About this Website

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We all start projects with the best of intentions. We want to do good for others.  We want be able to help people and maybe be rewarded with a little monetary compensation for all your hard work at the end of the day.

LasVegasBDSM.com is No Different

This website was started to help people find information about the Las Vegas BDSM community.  Provide you with links, news and information about the kinky side of Sin City.  And we still do that.

But Las Vegas is a strange animal when it comes to “communities” and getting people to give you the information and to get it to you before the event.

Plus the Vegas scene is always changing.  So what may post today, will be totally different in six months. So Lord help us if we post a bad address or bad link!!

As Webmaster, I love this site and the people it attracts.  I still have the desire to help people find their way around the Las Vegas BDSM scene.  But I also need to have some compensation for the time it takes to keep it going and updated.  Thus the addition of Affiliate Marketing.  Links, photos and banners to movies, articles and other advertisers who want your business.

Some people are offended by the links and the fact that I may make a dollar or two from the website.  This, they say, is a community site.  For the benefit of all ( I kid you not)  That it should remain pure and free.  Damn Capitalist!!   Others don’t mind exchanging a little web real estate with some promo for a sex toy or an occasional movie review.

Than we have the bare nuts and bolts of the typical website visitor.  According to the visitor logs, half of you are here for the Kinky Vegas information.  Half of you are here for the bondage porn.  It is split almost evenly between the two themes.  With a small, third group here for the stories and resources of being the Dom/Slave.

So What is a Webmaster to Do?

Some say to focus on one side.  So what if  it will be a small group of loyal visitors?  Better to have small loyal group than a large fractured one.   It will be better and attract a better group of viewers.  The other side says to abandon all hope and just go pure porn.  Get reviews of BDSM related movies and links to hot articles and stories of Master and Slave couples, etc…Tell us about great new toys to rock our worlds and show us how to do it all…  In other words, Jack Off material

I have come to the conclusion to  say fuck you all! I’m hitting both groups.  Come here, get your fill of great BDSM porn while learning a little more of the Las Vegas BDSM scene that I can find and post. Mix in with some great stories and articles about the world of Masters and Slaves.

Join Us

If you want, drop me a line and join the website as a BDSM model, an erotic writer or sex /health expert or a photographer.   This is a great site to get some free exposure.  We get great traffic just by doing nothing.  Imagine what can happen if we tap into the audience, get some great contributors and roll with it??   Traffic would skyrocket and you would get some amazing free traffic from here to your own site.

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